Wednesday, December 30, 2009

updates before bed

I don't want to go on too much about work. I will say though, that I think that the store is going to do very well. We are getting busier every week so far, and I am quite excited to see the team growing and getting better every day. There are still some wrinkles to be ironed, the odd person or two who doesn't see the big picture about the restaurant, but they will be dealt with in time. And there is the ongoing issue of the ventilation in the kitchen, a leaky ice machine and the cooler that stopped working. These things happen, and thank you one year warranty on everything for keeping me from worrying too much about them.

Christmas was great. I was blessed to spend it with people I love, and love me back. My new beard trimmer seems to be on steroids compared to the last one, and I had to be careful not to lose my nose this morning.

We have a second Lucy in our family now, a sweet and gorgeous 2 year old black lab (crossed with what we speculate to be border collie) who is mostly well trained, gentle with people (including the kids) and has nothing but love to give. We rescued her from the Delta animal shelter, and any doubt if this was the perfect dog for us was gone very quickly.

This weekend and the start of next week brings not only a new year, but a new house too. It's not really a new house, but is new to us. We get to move "up" the ladder on to the top floor and out of the basement. I am so excited for that, and the extra space we will have. Not too excited about the moving part though, which I believe I have droned on about elsewhere on this blog. (we have moved once or twice before).

Alas, the end of my day has come and I must sleep now, for I have pieces in place that have allowed me a day off tomorrow, and along with that, a date with my wonderful, beautiful, amazing and blessed wife.

Wednesday, December 16, 2009

the "i'm finally home" post. sort of.

I was going to write a post about "finally" being home, how tired Dave and I were of Calgary, how amazing it was to finally be back with my family. Then I found out that we were opening the restaurant a week early, so instead of two days off with my peeps before returning to work after being away for 4 weeks, I had to get up and start work here.

Since then, I have been working lawyer-like hours. I can't imagine how people do the 9am-1am work day every week. 7 days a week. I did it for one week, and by the end of it I was definitely spent. I have been able to cut back the hours a bit, as people get more trained. I'm still pretty much working everyday, and looking forward to Christmas for a day off.

There is so much more I am excited for about Christmas than just a day off. We have been so blessed this year, meeting new friends, helping old friends, a new life plan and focus on the Lord.

I could go on and on about it, but as you may have guessed, it's time for me to leave for work.

Monday, November 9, 2009

remote update

Hey everyone. It's been a couple of weeks here since last visiting, so here's an update for you.

Kitchen training was interesting. We spent the first two weeks here in Calgary working out of a very slow, very dirty kitchen. It is kind of funny that the trainers keep telling us of how things should be, yet when we walk in the kitchen it is the opposite of what they are telling us. Definitely an example of how not to do things.

That side of the training is done though, and we are now starting our training in the dining room. It will not be much busier out front, but it will be cleaner, and more of what I am used to every day coming in to work.

It's been pretty boring outside of work. There is not much for Dave and I to do, except hang out in our hotel room watching mostly garbage TV and heading out to the odd movie. Dining out everyday for every meal is getting old too, but there is not much to cook with our microwave.

Today begins the two week countdown, which we are both very excited for. Pretty sure we could have completed the training in 2 weeks instead of 4, instead it is just getting dragged out. Hopefully these 2 weeks will fly by and we can get home to see our families soon.

Thursday, October 29, 2009

In Calgary right now, not much time to post. Well, I have lots of time in the afternoon/evenings, but no computer access from which to post.

I am not a fan of Calgary. I would like to go home now please...

Wednesday, October 21, 2009

FTR-It is definitely not worth $142 to try and save 10 or 15 seconds on a late night drive home by cautiously ignoring the color of the last traffic light nearest to home. And it ends up using up an extra 5-10 minutes while the officer does his paperwork.

I am currently taking this class off right now, and letting Vanessa teach. Art and painting are definitely not my subjects to be teaching.
First up, I do neither of them very well.
Secondly, I understand that even though (or because) I suffer from the first reason, I do not have the patience to try and teach little people how to paint. Or craft. Give me a box of lego though, and I can teach a few engineering points. And how cool a spaceship can look.

Tuesday, October 20, 2009

Halfway through my second day of "unemployment" and so far, it's been great. I had a really good day with Eleanor in the morning, working on math while Thomas was at a Dr. appointment. Then some crosswords while Vanessa took over the teaching after lunch, and a quick science lesson before dinner. It is difficult to be the "earth" and rotate & revolve around the sun, while having a "moon" try to revolve around you at the same time.

Staff bowling party last night (by staff I mean the staff of where I used to work...) was interesting. Not the best social venue to visit with people, 6 lanes of people all focused on not breaking their fingers in the 10 pin bowling balls. Thus, I was coerced in to spending some after bowling time visiting the people.

I am expecting a phone call today...soon in fact...with the training plan. *fingers crossed* that it involves Vancouver more than Calgary.

Wednesday, October 14, 2009

Still awaiting the schedule for next week. Actually, still waiting for the official "you are employed by us" date. At this point, I am thinking that I'm going to end up with a week off. That wouldn't be terrible, as long as it is only one.

Today as we were driving to the dentist (that's another story for another day) we passed through a relatively new area of town. I guess the area isn't really new, but all the homes are new. Pretty new homes, tiny yards all neat and tidy. So as we are driving, we look over to our left and there are 4 random chickens pecking away at the lawn in front of one of these neat-as-a-pin new homes. Vanessa exclaims "chickens!", which draws the attention of the little people in the back seat. Eleanor sees them, and her first reaction is "that's incredibly unusual!"

What a great vocabulary she has. It's great to have an example that school at home is actually not turning their brains to mush. Also nice to have a bit of a positive example that they really are still learning, amidst all of the skeptics.

Sunday, October 11, 2009

I am about to begin my last week at my current restaurant. I can't remember if I have ever told you all out there which restaurant it is, but if I haven't here's a clue-it's somewhere you would go if you were celebrating a MILESTONE.('s)

I am looking forward to this week, as well as feeling some sadness. I am about to leave the old and familiar, which has grown stale in the last year or two, for the shiny and new. I know that there are a lot of "stories" out there about people doing this particular thing, leaving the old for the new, and having it not work out for them. I am hoping that this is not one of those instances.

There are people I will miss, and people that I will bring with me to the new venture. Alas, I can not take all of the people I want to. It's just not the right venue for everyone. I am cautiously lamenting the turn from a 38 hour work week to something closer to 50. Who am I kidding? Closer to 50? I'll be happy if I can keep it to 50 in the first 6 months. After that I should be able to cut the hours back.

I am working hard to stay positive in my saunter to the finish line at work. I really am trying to make an effort to do things the same as I would if I just started out a few months ago and was trying to impress. Fighting the "I don't care" attitude will be a challenge. I just have to remember that God would not be impressed at me slacking off this week, so I will do my best to put all of what I have in to it this week. Or at least as much as I have been for the last year or so, which isn't all but still quite enough.

FTR-sometimes I would like to secretly videotape people at family dinners saying obscenely inappropriate things after having 3 too many drinks and play it back for them when they are sober so they may see how hurtful and painful their drunken comments really are to those around them. Not to shame them, but to help them realize how foolish they are behaving in hopes that they might be encouraged to make a change.
*sigh*

Friday, October 9, 2009

how good is He?

Last night after dinner the four of us went for a walk/bike ride/scooter ride. Vanessa and I were walking, and Eleanor on her bike. Thomas thinks that bicycles are evil, and rode the scooter instead. Vanessa was trying to prepare me for the thought that Thomas may never be in to bikes, but I assured her that this would change. Maybe I'm in denial?

So we walk around the block, around the corner, up the street, down the street, and end up doing laps at the parking lot at the end of our street. (it's kind of a cul-de-sac. Our street ends with a must-do right hand turn, and there is a bulge off of this that ends up being cul-de-sac like. There is a parking lot in the middle of this).

Around and around they go, pulling over for cars as they go. Just after we decide it is time to head back up the street to go home and force the children in to their weekly scrubbing (bodies, not the house), when we are about halfway up the street a truck comes roaring down the street going far faster than they should be for such a congested street. Our street is pretty narrow, which gets compounded by the cars parked along either side of the street. So narrow is it, that two cars cannot pass each other without pulling over to the side to let the other by.

This truck comes barreling down the road, and literally screeches around the corner and in to the cul-de-sac that circles the parking lot that we were just riding circles around. There is NO way this truck would have been able to stop in time had we still been riding around having fun.

God is good. Good for putting in on our hearts to leave when we did, and good for encouraging the children to obey the first time we asked them to leave. Without complaining, they just came. Thankfully for them, they did.

Monday, October 5, 2009

FTR

A new type of post. FTR is a "for the record" post, one that will give people a quick heads up on whatever might be going on.

FTR-we did not get a dog. We got a fish for Thomas. (his name is luke, a lovely deep blue colored Betta fish). We saw some very cute tiny dogs at the two pet stores while looking for fish, but at no time did we actually do anything more than- pet, ooh and ahh, and get licked by a puppy in the store.

FTR-going to bed at 930pm is trouble. I woke up at 1:30am, and my brain decided to kick in to high gear and didn't stop until almost 5am. Would have much preferred sleep.

FTR-we are not in a cult, nor will we drink the kool-aid if we happen to land in one.

Tomorrow should shape up to be a seal the deal kind of day, which will hopefully bring some official dates for training. And the roller coaster goes up...

Wednesday, September 30, 2009

answers

A new favorite website, found here, which has...well, answers. I just read a great article about dinosaurs, and how to explain them to the masses who believe in the "age of dinosaurs" millions of year ago.

I recommend it if you have questions and cannot figure a biblical worldview to explain them.

Saturday, September 26, 2009

zoom

Flying full speed ahead in to the unrehearsed dance of homeschooling. Still going mostly good so far, as with anything there are good days and challenging days. I love being able to spend time with the kids on my days off work, or when I work at night during the week, time that they would otherwise be spending at school.

I haven't started the new job yet, and already I am feeling trepidation. I would love to be able to get some dates confirmed...just waiting for a phone call.

Vanessa has been sick for a week, and this morning as I got out of bed I felt the impending dread of stuffy sinuses and a sore throat. C'mon Vitamin C, do your thing.

Tuesday, September 22, 2009

why our justice system isn't perfect

All you need to do is read this story here (and the original story here), and you will see why just like everything else man does/creates, the justice system is not perfect.

There is no reason that this person should not face some sort of consequence for his actions.

Bah!

Sunday, September 20, 2009

As per the last post, I know it's not twitter. I probably am not allowed to say tweet without acknowledging them, so I apologize now twitter. Maybe one day I will go ahead and launch myself in to the official world of tweeting, but for now, I have to rip it off.

Moving on, it's decided. I am going to be the store partner of Original Joe's Restaurant and Bar, in South Surrey, BC.

I know this is a bit of a far cry from paramedicine, but as I mentioned before

a) this is a good financial opportunity for us to start planning beyond next weeks paycheque
b) the paramedic strike has already postponed my school indefinitely, so I shall take advantage of the opportunity God has put before us, and run with it.

We are so blessed to have this opportunity come up and I am quite excited about for many reasons, which I am now too tired to get in to. I am a bit nervous too, but if God has this restaurant in His plans, then I have nothing to be worried about.

Friday, September 18, 2009

tweet?

Final negotiations on now...stay tuned.

Wednesday, September 16, 2009

organize anyone?

Still trying to figure out a set routine/schedule for our family. Half of the curriculum was obtained yesterday, with the other half on order and due in soon. A more structured school schedule is falling in to place, which I think will be great for the kids.

For me, I am trying to organize the weekly lesson plan for Awana Cubbies, which shouldn't be too difficult as they lay it all out for me in the handy "Jumper Celebrations" binder. The trouble is though, our group of pre-schoolers is mostly on the "pre" end of the spectrum as opposed to the "close to schoolers" end of the spectrum. The lesson plan last week seemed a bit over their heads, but I am trusting that God will work in the little one's hearts anyways and help them get the meaning of the lessons. I will also try to gear the language down a bit, so they don't get lost.

Then, there is the community group starting tonight, which I am excited for. Oh, did I mention that we are apprentice leaders? Which means that as the months go by, there will be extra work for us to take on, leading up to a possible group of our own in January. Again, I will be trusting God that he gives us what we need to be ready and great at this new posting.

And last, the possibility that our world will be flipped around a bit with a new job for me. I know! It's not for sure yet, and as I type I am anxiously awaiting the phone call from our possible generous financial backers. If they come through, I will be handing in my notice, and spending a good part of October in Alberta doing some training to take over my very own restaurant. See this post here for more details.

And the race continues...

Thursday, September 10, 2009

almost one week?

One week almost finished. Sort of. Ok, half of it is done. The kids seem to be doing ok, there hasn't been much complaint about doing the actual school work. Most of what we have been doing is review, since we are still waiting for our curriculum to come in. And the math gets some complaining. Math will probably be the least desirable course to teach and learn around here. Alas, we will persevere.

Yesterday we got to go to the Pool for some "PE" time, which was a nice hour for me and Vanessa to hang out. Wednesday's are good and cheap "value" day, so it will probably become part of a regular routine for us.

Haven't found too much time to post any more pics of the vacation, or any stories for that matter, but I think of the trip often and quite fondly. Dreaming of a farmhouse one day...

Monday, September 7, 2009

brunch mania

Who knew that 3 busy brunch shifts in a row would leave me as tired as 3 closing shifts would have? What a new definition to a "long weekend" for me.

The good news around here is we have a digital piano now! It should be perfect to start teaching the kids how to play (and refresh my own skills). I was reviewing the huge pile of music and music lesson papers that were left over at my parents house from yesteryear when my brother and I took piano lessons. There were a couple books and songs that took me right back, songs that I didn't even remember that I remembered, and I could hear them clearly in my head repeating as they did when I practiced them endlessly.

I'm not looking forward to the daunting task of planning my Sunday night Awana program (Go Cubbies!), music lessons for the kids, not to mention the rest of their curriculum. Over my head right now? Maybe, but I know Someone who has a pretty good grip on me and isn't going to let go.

Friday, September 4, 2009

round 2?

So I don't usually double post (well, sometimes I don't even post at all!) but I just came across this little video, by Tim Hawkins, and it's "LOL" funny. (did I just use lol?) Listen to it with the sound on, and maybe a tissue or two handy.

Home what?!?

We are officially signed up at Regent Christian Online Academy. "isn't that where the kids used to go to school that costs you $500/month" you ask? Not quite. This is the same school, but notice the "online" part of the title. It means that we are doing school at home this year.

So far we are hearing lots of "why" type questions about our decision. People don't always get the answer of it being how God has planned for us to teach our families, probably because all of these people went to public school and are of the mindset that we can just teach our children about God at home, or at Sunday school. I don't know about everyone else that has this idea, but I know that in the last 3 years that the kids have been in the school system there is nowhere near the amount of time or effort spent teaching at home as there is time and effort spent at school.

Not such a big deal you say, what's wrong with school? Sure they learn some things at school, positive things that they need to know. There are so many negative things that they will learn though, that it doesn't make it worth it. Like Evolution as the only theory that is true. It is continually getting more dis-proven, but we teach it in school and do not allow for any other theories to be discussed.

There is the mandated curriculum that teaches homosexuality as perfectly normal and acceptable. Let me state right now that we do not believe, nor will we teach, that anyone in our family should hate or disrespect anyone who makes the life choice to be homosexual. With that being said, although our kids will know that some people make that life choice, they will also know that it goes against God's plan for us and is sin. Marriage is between a man and a woman, and sex doesn't come before marriage.

Moving on, we see that if wish to have influence on our children and what they learn as they grow, we will need to role model it and teach it to them. With our culture being inundated with Hollywood's idea of "pretty" and "cool", it is getting harder and harder to explain to kids why modesty is important. Even the idea of modesty that the media gives us is so far off base. Anyone seen the "bratz" dolls? How old are these figures supposed to be? tweens maybe? Have you seen how they dress these dolls? These are one of many mainstream icons that Hollywood and the media have given us that are hurting our children, and to send our kids to school to be subjected to other kids that are taken up in the culture is not fair to them. Hey kids, spend 8 hours with other kids your age, but you are not allow to dress like them or watch the same garbage on TV. But go and make friends, cause we need to "socialize" you.

No thank you. We are going to socialize our kids with other like minded people that share our world view. This way we can realistically expect them to hold our world view as they grow. And then, when they are more aptly trained and mature, they will be able to be the city on the hill that all will see and search for.

Tuesday, September 1, 2009

September First

It's the first day of September, and that means we have one week left to get our curriculum in order. That's right folks, we will be educating our children here, out of our home. Crazy right? We don't think so. I may post more on the how/why/what were we thinking sometime soon, but no time right now for that.

We spent the day helping my brother and his family move to their new home. Not that I needed it, but it reminds me that I do not enjoy moving. I also do not enjoy moving other people. But, since we have enlisted help from family and friends countless times (not really countless, 13 in the last 14 years) I do not complain and free myself up for as many helping moves as I can. I should have them all payed back by the time I am 83.

As I have mentioned, the good times we had visiting included having fun with all of the Messenger family. Noah was very helpful around the house, dutifully doing his jobs and wholehearted whooping me at Mencala. He was also great with the younger kids, looking out for them and playing games with them.

Off for dinner now, I think I may eat two of them.

Saturday, August 29, 2009

fast and furious

It seems that the slower it gets at work, the more time I spend evangelizing. I had a wonderful conversation with a young server that went to a Christian school for all of her education. I can tell you that whether she is saved or not, there are definitely some choices she has made that were not biblical. Either way, we were talking about movies in our culture nowadays, and I mentioned to her a parable that I heard just last weekend from our friends down south. (it seems that they have made an impact on us, no?) I will give you the condensed version here...

The parable has to do with a teenage son wanting to see a movie that is mostly great, but with just one small part in it that is not appropriate. He argues with the dad up and down that he should get to see it because it is so great, and it's only just one small part that's inappropriate, the rest of the movie is great, all my friends are going...you know the teenage peer pressure out there.
Anyhow, the dad doesn't cave in. Instead, the next day, he invites his son's friends all over and when they are all gathered around, the dad says "I have made a special treat for you all. I made some brownies. Now these brownies aren't just regular brownies, they are top of the line premium brownies. I used the best chocolate out there, the finest flour, the sweetest premium sugar. I went all out on the brownies. The only thing is, I went to the back yard and got a small piece of dog poop and tucked it in there. Now it is only one very small piece of dog poop, the rest of the brownies are out of this world good. Who wants one?"

The point is, even if it's only one tiny part of a movie that is dog poop, are you still going to eat it?

I am going to post some more about our trip and the good times that we had on vacation, soon, really.

another late night

I find myself again up at a late hour, trying to decide what to share with you before I head off to bed. Another night of work is finished, and although not much has changed since Wednesday, I had a better night tonight. My Mom and Dad, and Auntie Gloria stopped in for dinner tonight. They don't usually come by my restaurant to see me, but it was my Dad's birthday, and I called him right when they were deciding where to go for dinner so he had no choice.
I was blessed to hear some stories about his trip to Bowren Lakes (sp?) and the canoe trip he took. It was cool to see how excited he was that he was able to make that journey, the 6 day epic canoeing adventure.

Now to make some friends and family's heads explode: We've been checking out RCA's online homeschooling programs the last couple days, and really praying about if this is the right decision. We have been getting advice from both sides on this subject for quite a while now as we have been questioning it for a while. Recently we have had some pretty convincing arguments for why we should homeschool. Wanna know what they are? Here's a couple:

-Deuteronomy 6:5-9
-Voddie Baucham's sermon regarding homeschooling, specifically the comment "if you send your children to be taught by Caesar, do not be surprised when they come home as Romans" (maybe not quoted exactly verbatim, but that's the general idea)
-pretty much the only time people are ever in a group of 25 people exactly the same age is in school. When is the last time you went to work with 25 people the same age as you? What will our children learn from this kind of social interaction? All kinds of negatives, and the only positive-learning how to wait in line.

There are surely more good reasons, but alas I fall victim to drained energy levels and a noisy cat who apparently does not think that it is ok for Eleanor to have a hamster in her bedroom.

Thursday, August 27, 2009

late night musings

I have just made it home from work, and I have to say I had a challenge keeping a smile on the whole time that I was there. The whole night I felt off, never really enjoying what I was doing. I kept thinking of options on what I could be doing instead of this job, what I can do for income until paramedic school starts (which is still up in the air, thinking at least 1 year if not longer).

Then, as everyone was almost finished up and the restaurant was close to empty, God has shown me that maybe I am meant to stick around for a little while longer. I found out that a part time bartender is going to have a baby. She has been pregnant before, but lost the baby, so she is quite excited and nervous at the same time. Oh, and she has a full time job in advertising for the local paper. And it turns out, as we started to talk about how Vanessa and I would love to have another baby, that she knows the pastor of our church (hi pastor Philip!)-(who am I kidding, he doesn't read my blog), and we started talking about where our church is, and why she should come by. It was a pretty good chat, and I feel confident that she may come by soon.

Then, as the last server finished up, the bartender leaves and we start talking about which church I go to, and the one she goes to, and get in to all sorts of conversation about the struggles of a husband who will not entertain the notion of going to church and how hard that is. I will skip all the details cause it's 130 and I'm sleepy, but I am going to pray that they are able to work through his issues and get him to check out Alpha sometime.

God is great, and His ways are often hidden from us, yet they are always Good.

Wednesday, August 26, 2009

home again

We have safely returned from our little vacation to Goldendale, WA. We had a great time visiting with the Messenger Family on their little farm.

There is so much to share, yet so many things to get done (not to mention the pesky challenge of heading back to work soon) so I will give you a highlight or two, and as time goes on I will either give you more, or forget that I am supposed to.

First up on the highlight reel (although they are in no particular order of importance) is Eleanor's utter joy at spending time at the Messengers. I think that Eleanor is a natural born farm girl, and we may have to go and buy one for her now. You wouldn't know it from the last hour that we spent there, but she really did have a great time. From being able to feed the goats, checking the chicken coop for eggs a few times per day, playing with the dog, playing with the baby, to finding the closest friend she has ever had in Heaven. They were instant friends when we met back in April, and after 5 days together are even more so. It is great to see Eleanor be able to connect with a friend like she never has before.

That is all I can get into right now, as God has blessed me with a job that provides for my family. I will do my best to smile and enjoy because of this reason alone.

Monday, August 17, 2009

bbq'in

Yesterday was a busy day of bbq's and sun for us. We spent the lunch time and afternoon at the beach with most of the members of our church, hanging out and catching some sun. There was a bbq there, along with the most important business of the day, the baptisms.


Everyone had a good time, playing in the sand, eating some food, splashing in the water. Not necessarily in that order mind you, but fun all the same.
After we managed to drag the kids out of the ocean, we headed of to the Benitez-Gomez family get together.


We saw some of Vanessa's family that we haven't had a chance to see in a while, and remark on how big her younger cousins are getting. It's kind of dating me, but I have to say I remember when they were just young pups, as old as my kids are now, when I met them. Now, they are all graduated, going to college/university, getting married, travelling the world. *sigh* as I get sentimental and comment on how quickly time seems to pass.

If you are tired of the "old age lamenting" I have to say be patient, it will pass. See, today is the day after my birthday, which traditionally has been equally if not more important than my actual birthday. So, given the fact that I have marked another year passing, so comes my momentary lamentations.


Awaiting the passport today, hoping it shows up so we can head down the visit the Messenger family tomorrow. Not sure why when Vanessa and I applied at the exact same time hers showed up last week and mine is MIA. There must be a reason for it, even if I am unaware. Until then, we're going to try to pack in secret and keep it quiet from the kids that we are going away.

Wednesday, August 12, 2009

trippin?

It turns out that Cultas Lake Waterpark cares much more about keeping it's grounds and water clean. Thank you to them that we did not pick up any new diseases while enjoying the waterslides.
It started off a bit cool, but the sun came out in the late afternoon to warm everyone up for the ride home.

After that, the holidays have consisted of sitting around the house, taking it easy. Eleanor was sick for most of Monday/Tuesday, but has rebounded well today. On Monday I did make a quick trip to work to compete in the drink competition that was being held, in which a partner and I made 3 drinks that may actually make it to the drink menu in the fall. The next stage of the competition takes place next Wednesday at a club called "the republic" in Vancouver. It's at 11am, so I don't know how hip and happening a place it will be, but nonetheless if we win, it's a decent prize. ($2000 travel voucher-giddy up!)

Possibly making a trip next week, looking forward to it if we can. I'll let you know dear internet, as soon as I find out (or weeks later, really, you know how consistent I am with the updates).

Sunday, August 9, 2009

kick off to holidays

Today is the official start to the 2 week holiday session I am going to begin. A few things to get done over the break, like getting a visit in to Uncle Mark.
To start it off though, a day at the Cultas Lake Waterslides. Should be fun, except for the rain and the cold*. I'm looking forward to seeing how much cleaner the Cultas Lake park is going to be from the Tswassen slides that we were at last year. It was not pretty to go in the water, very yucky.


*most people wouldn't consider 23C cold, but I'm not most people.

Wednesday, August 5, 2009

ball time again

It's been another year, and with that year comes the annual work slo pitch tournament. This year saw cooler weather than last, which turned out to be ok as everyone was still overheated from the last week or so.
Our team did pretty well, although we lost in the quarter finals. Quarter finals? you say. How did you do well if you lost in the quarter finals?
The team we played in the quarter finals was the reigning champ from last year, and it was (and always is) our two stores that are heavily favored to win. (not both, just one of them).
This year our match up came early in the playoffs, and with much fought effort we fell by one run in the final inning.

The most interesting story of this day for me, is that in all three games that I played, I was the pitcher. And, considering I have only ever pitched one inning in an actual game before, I have to say I rocked it out. You could even say I followed in my Dad's footsteps. I was throwing spin, I was throwing inside and outside to control where the batter hit the ball, and I even knew how and when to throw the "dark one" to get a strike out or two.

I had a blast. And now, I am going to crash for the evening and sleep like a log.

Tuesday, July 28, 2009

hey johnny, how hot is it?

I will not complain about the heat. I will do my best to get everyone else to stop complaining about the heat. Enjoy it while it is here. Accept the fact that you will be sweaty, and know that everyone else around you is equally sweaty, so there is no need to be self conscious.

And how hot is it? Well, you know it is hot when I am able to walk across the Eternally Super-Glacier Cooled Tile Floors in our house without slippers or shoes, or even socks.

Friday, July 24, 2009

*sigh*

Latest update in my schooling saga here. Should I start doubting if this is ever going to happen?

Thursday, July 23, 2009

boredom

In keeping with the summer theme that I seem to have going on right now, I thought I would post a link to this article for those who have kids on summer break right now. It talks about industriousness in our children, and one way they can keep from being bored.

Wednesday, July 22, 2009

summer memories

I remember spending a lot of time swimming and playing in the water during the summers when I was growing up. Maybe because I liked it so much that it stands out as a highlight, and the everything else that I did faded away, and now I am left to think that I did more swimming than I actually did.

Since being a "grown up" (I use that term loosely, cause I don't always feel like an old man) I haven't spent anywhere near enough time just having fun in the pool. This year, I think that I will be breaking that trend. We spent a good number of hours yesterday in the pool, and then the kids were at Aldergrove lake today (I know, I was only there in spirit, not actual water). I am thinking that since tomorrow will be a repeat of the last couple days, that we shall be taking a couple hours in the afternoon to stop by the local watering hole before I go to work.

I HAVE to get Vanessa to help me with the sunscreen though, cause I don't seem to be able to manage complete protection of my body. Just look at the back of my right arm for the evidence.

Friday, July 17, 2009

you know it's summer when...

You get a coffee at 11:00 in the morning, leave 1/3 of it in the car until 3:30 when you are driving to work, and it is still just as hot as when you bought it.

Monday, July 13, 2009

one more month to figure it out

I have officially requested a 2 week holiday in August. I am very excited to be taking 2 weeks off of work, and not have to worry about cramming a 3 week study and school fest in to it. It will probably be the last hurrah of time off before the upcoming school in the new year, which will then result in a probable career change.
But I digress...this isn't about worrying about what will happen next year. This is about what I am going to do with the two weeks of summer vacation.

Friday, July 10, 2009

grinding the mountain

Yesterday was a day full of adventure for us. See, we have some family visiting from Brantford, ON. They, along with my parents and aunt and uncle, all thought it would be well and dandy to take in a day at Stanley Park, in Vancouver. Then, after a lovely picnic there, spend some time over at Grouse mountain doing the Grouse Grind.

I had been thinking about doing the Grind this year, with the kids, as a cool activity. Turns out this was our opportunity for it. I had the day off, and the sun was shining. After looking at the mountain from Stanley park, I thought I had better talk to the kids about the daunting challenge that would be the climb. As we got there, with one last chance to back out, Eleanor decided that it would be a bit much for her. Since I have never done the Grind, I wasn't sure if she could make it but was going to give her the chance. After completing it, with Thomas, I am sure that she would not have made it. We had had such a busy day up until that point, it was just too much.
Long story short, Thomas and I finished the Grind at 1hour 31minutes. Pretty great for 6 year old if you ask me.

I think this will translate in to an early bedtime tonight though, after working all day today my body is just about done.

Wednesday, July 8, 2009

Simon's Cat

I'm not sure where my wife came across this video, but we watched it the other day and all four of us were in stitches. Definitely funny, every time our cat meow's at us now we think of Simon's Cat.
Have a look, it's less than 2 minutes. And make sure you have your sound turned on.

Monday, July 6, 2009

quantum biologics solved

It turns out that you can, in fact, eat pieces of plastic spoon and be ok. As long as you eat it with chocolate cake, it will just travel your digestive system and leave in the usual methods. Eleanor is doing quite fine, and other than a long wait in the emergency room and a late dinner, all is well.

It is however, recommended by all medical practitioners that you do not eat your plastic spoons with your chocolate cake.

Sunday, July 5, 2009

complex mathematics

(a broken plastic fork + bday cake + a little girl) multiply by a long wait the hospital + no dinner = ???

Will update more when I find out the outcome of said equation.

Wednesday, July 1, 2009

perfectly

This morning we are getting the kids ready for their first (thomas) and second (eleanor) vacation away to camp, without their mom and dad. Eleanor went last year, and had a wonderful time. She is terribly excited, especially at the prospect of staying up until 12am again. Thomas is excited, but as he tells me he isn't sure what about because he hasn't been there before. Vanessa and I are excited for them, because we know that they will have a blast.
Thomas was getting a suitcase out from under the bed, and it is one that we haven't used for a while. He chose this one because he didn't want people laughing at his (the superhero suitcase he has had since he was 2). Funny, this was the same time last year that Eleanor decided that her Dora suitcase was not going to fly anymore.
So he takes the suitcase out, drags it to the living room, and from the bedroom we hear him exclaim, with much emotion in his voice:

"This suitcase is perfectly clean on one side, and perfectly dirty on the other!"

As I mentioned, this suitcase lived underneath the bed, and has lived there pretty much since we moved in almost a year ago. It turns out that when Lucy (the fat cat) sleeps under the bed, it is this suitcase that she sleeps on and perfectly covers with her hair.

Monday, June 22, 2009

hello summer

Did someone just say it was June? Already? You mean school is out in two days? Where did the last month go?

Last week was one of the busiest that we have had in quite a while (ever?). Ministry in the park every night from 7-8, cooking food Tuesday & Thursday, a bunch of work shifts thrown in there, oh and we can't forget the 3 games of baseball on Saturday. Yup, nothing like the one day a year that I play 3 games of baseball to remind me of how young my body is.

I am very much looking forward to spending tomorrow in slow motion, enjoying the last day alone with my beautiful wife before the kidlets are out of school for the summer.

Sunday, May 24, 2009

overqualified

From the book of Exodus :
1
Now Moses was tending the flock of Jethro his father-in-law, the priest of Midian, and he led the flock to the far side of the desert and came to Horeb, the mountain of God. Exodus 3:1

I find it quite compelling that Moses, after 40 years of growing up as royalty and being groomed for a possible shot at the throne in Egypt, takes off to the desert. (see the previous chapters for the whole story, it's fantastic). Anyhow, he spends another 40 years in the desert as a shepard working for his father-in-law. Talk about over qualified.

What struck me as compelling was how much time I spent complaining about how I should have a more important role at my restaurant, how I deserved to be more than my position. I see what Moses did, I can only assume without complaint.

We need to work for God wherever He has us right now, and do it with joy until He tells us to do something else. I shall try to remember this in the future.

Friday, May 15, 2009

friday night boys night

Going to be hanging out with the dudes tonight. Should be a good time, we're going to do some good ol' fashioned book study (which book? you ask..the bible of course) and then playing some games. Not sure which ones yet, thinking Rockband may make an appearance, and maybe some settlers of catan. Followed up with Parcheesie?

If you would like to follow along what we will be discussing-read ephesians chapter 5:22-30 and proverbs 12:4.

Oh, and did I mention that I shaved some of my beard and now have the biggest set of Mutton Chops this side of Pennsylvania?

Tuesday, May 5, 2009

fully functioning again

I said last post that I would tell you all about the "date night" adventure if I was able to regain mental capabilities. It took a day or three, but I have returned to previously available functioning. As told, here's the lowdown on date night.

We offered a two for one deal on all appetizers and entree's last wednesday night, beginning at 4pm. We expected to see a night similar to a Friday, where we filled up once, turned over the restaurant and then died off.
What nobody expected was the 50 people waiting at the front door at 345pm. Nor did we expect to be on a wait for the next 6 hours, which I imagine would have continued on through the night if we didn't lock the doors 15 minutes past closing time.
Over 600 entree's were served from 4pm til 11pm. Without any break in the action. It was absolutely the most intense night I have ever had. Busier even than Mother's day, which is far more controlled. This was a free for all, and the fact that everyone survived, noone walked out, nobody was injured (physically, maybe mentally though) is amazing.

I am now in the process of concealing all memories of that night in a well protected box in my mind, surrounded by a 1 foot thick retaining wall which they shall never come out of again.

Friday, May 1, 2009

no post today

Too much sunshine today to post anything right now.

I can tell you that I am expecting the sun to recharge my brain back to it's proper functioning capabilities after the Epic "date night" at work Wednesday night.

If it does recharge my former intellect, I shall tell you all about it.

Tuesday, April 28, 2009

go kids!

Psalms 127:3-5
3
Sons are a heritage from the LORD,
children a reward from him.

4 Like arrows in the hands of a warrior
are sons born in one's youth.

5 Blessed is the man
whose quiver is full of them.
They will not be put to shame
when they contend with their enemies in the gate.


We have been talking alot about this for the past week, trying to figure what it means for us. Off to do some research now...

Monday, April 20, 2009

From Anniversary's to First-aversaries

So the daily word has turned in to a every other week word, but it's for good reason.

First, there was the Easter weekend, which doubled up with the 10th wedding anniversary of a certain couple that I happen to be a part of. We had a tremendous dinner at the Seasons in the Park, overlooking Vancouver from the top of Queen Elizabeth park. I had all sorts of lovely things that I was going to blog here about how great it was to be married to my wife. In the end, the best I could come up with a movie quote that she came up with that night, which I will give back to you.
From the movie "Good Will Hunting" Robin Williams character (Sean McGuire) is speaking to Matt Damon (Will Hunting) in regards to his wife who has passed away. I give it now not verbatim, but in spirit.
*In the end, it's the little things that you know about each other that nobody else knows that make it special.*
This said after one of us (not going to say who) let off a bit of gas on the way back to the car after dinner, and it was so fitting (not the gas, but the quote) not only to the situation, but to life as well. Knowing stuff about each other that nobody else knows helps the bond stay bonded.
Until you blog about them farting on the way to the car. Then, it's run for the hills cause they're coming after you with a frying pan.

This past weekend we spent in Goldendale, WA. with a family that we have never met before, but will forever be in our hearts. We traveled over 500kms to a church conference, in what seemed like the middle of nowhere, to stay with a family we hadn't even met.
I have to admit that we were a bit nervous before meeting our host family, but once we met them all of that went away.
They were some of the most hospitable, kind hearted people that I have ever met, and they gave to us with such a genuine love that we were both amazed. Not only did they provide for us food and a place to stay, we had the pleasure of meeting their daughter, her husband, and 7 of their 8 kids as well. Our kids bonded with theirs instantly, and immediately they all felt like family. So much so that 1o minutes after meeting them we were invited to their house for dinner. We went, and needless to say we had a great time. Truly we were blessed by our first meeting with this family, and we look forward to the opportunity to meet them again some time.

A trip through Portland for dinner, and then a long car ride home up the I5 and back to work this morning. Later this week, I should have time to get to the next daily word.

Thursday, April 9, 2009

James 4:
13
Now listen, you who say, "Today or tomorrow we will go to this or that city, spend a year there, carry on business and make money." 14Why, you do not even know what will happen tomorrow. What is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes. 15Instead, you ought to say, "If it is the Lord's will, we will live and do this or that." 16As it is, you boast and brag. All such boasting is evil. 17Anyone, then, who knows the good he ought to do and doesn't do it, sins.


Good for me to keep this in mind when worrying about getting in to school this year, or next, or what's going to happen when.
We need to make plans for the future, but we also need to understand two things when we do. First, make sure they are in line with God's plan for you. Second, understand that tomorrow it could all be over.

long overdue

I have not written much about my nephew Ryder on this blog, and I don't know that I ever blogged anything about his passing back in September. I'm sure I can make all sorts of reasons why not, but mostly because I could never write something quite as good as this:

Written by his Grandpa Dwight, published by the Globe and Mail,
This Story tells it all. Please have a read.

Monday, April 6, 2009

march madness, april fools

Ok, so I didn't mention I was going to take the month of March off. Sorry about that. I did. Now, I am back.

And back I am, with a fresh installment of daily reading, from the book of James.

"2Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, 3because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. 4Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything. 5If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him. 6But when he asks, he must believe and not doubt, because he who doubts is like a wave of the sea, blown and tossed by the wind. 7That man should not think he will receive anything from the Lord; 8he is a double-minded man, unstable in all he does."

I now need to persevere, and use this next year to become complete before I go to PCP (which doesn't look like it's going to happen until next year, after the olympics).

Monday, February 23, 2009

*groan*

I have officially applied for the pcp program now. I know, I didn't tell you about it before hand, I just gave you a teaser that I might. We have been sick around our house the last week or two, and even though we thought it was clearing up this past weekend, it has come back full force today.
Usually my body doesn't ache like this unless I have been playing some sort of once per year sport. Who knew a virus could do the same? Without all the fun and excitement of actually doing anything.
Awesome.
Anyhow, I'll be praying that there is an opening for the July class, in New Westminster, as I have no idea how Parksville is going to work.

Friday, February 13, 2009

No J's

Financing for OJ's + Me = Not Happening.

At milestones for now, who knows what's going to happen. Re-focus on PCP maybe...

Saturday, February 7, 2009

germy

It's been a week since the pain-inducing day of football, and I am feeling much recovered from that. So much so, that today I took the kids to the pool (indoor of course). I had a feeling that if I did, I would catch something. Vanessa doesn't think that you can get germs from the pool, but I have them. Germs, making unhappy times in my body.

And congratulations to David M, who handed in his notice at work today. Full time manager of a wine shop in Shaugnessy? (sp?) perfect fit for him.

Sunday, February 1, 2009

super sunday

It's super bowl Sunday, which means that it is also the day for my restaurants annual touch football tournament. Even though I closed last night, I thought since it will probably be the last one I am at before moving on to bigger and better (see last post).

Our team better than expected, taking the quater finals in an overtime which saw Chris Vogel earn an MVP nomination. Winning that in O/T, we played the semi final game. This game also went to O/T, which we were all beyond being surprised at and actually thought we might win. We didn't, but it was a good time anyway.

Now my body is done. It is rejecting my being awake, alive, out of bed. I'm trying to hold on until the kids go to bed, but not sure if I can.

Tuesday, January 27, 2009

grandview corners south surrey

So it's not open yet, but in Mid-April, you will see Original Joe's added to the list of stores in this complex. And on the door, you will see Russell Greenhow, Managing Partner.

Giddy up!

Sunday, January 25, 2009

Sunday afternoon

Why does it take my amazing wife 2 hours to go to the grocery store, when she goes with a list that would take me only 38 minutes to gather? Some sort of grocery store limbo that I don't know about? This will seriously cut in to my Sunday afternoon nap time...

I appreciate the sun that is making an appearance today, though I fear it will not be enough. I think I need to spend some time in the sun, where it is 32 Celsius instead of 32 Fahrenheit. A cruise to Mexico would be awesome.

Wednesday, January 21, 2009

cautious hooray?

I don't want to get too excited, but I think that after I wrote about the spyware problem, it seems to be fixed. Not really sure how it happened, but amongst my tampering yesterday I must have did something right. Added bonus to no more pop up-the computer seems to have regained it's youthful speed and vigor.

I was reminded yesterday why I no longer hold the company I currently work for in favor. A person who has been key to our store doing as well as it has for the last two years, who happens to have 3 kids and has worked out a routine that works very well for his family life, was given the proverbial finger and told he has to go and fix the Langley store. The same store that "they" allowed to be run in to the ground, the one that I have written about a few times. The sad part is, we have another qualified sous chef in our store that is willing to go and put in the time to help fix the Langley store. He is single, and has no kids, so working an extra couple hours per day doesn't bother him.
"They" say they have to do what is "best for the business". I am curious how forcing a loyal employee out after 13 years of service by putting him in a situation that you know he won't be happy with is "best for business". Especially since he has said flat out that he will not stay with the company if forced in to this move. Now both restaurants will lose his services. Smart business decision.

Maybe he will want to be KM of my new restaurant...

Tuesday, January 20, 2009

hooray for nothing!

There I was, coming home from work on Friday night armed with a newly discovered trick to try and get rid of the annoying pop up at the bottom of my computer.
Let me tell you a bit about it. For about two or three months now, there has been an icon in the taskbar at the bottom of our screen. This icon is a red circle, with a big white X through it. Very much this icon says "stop, there is a problem!" The icon pops up about every 10 seconds or so, with a ballon message that says "warning, your computer is infected with spyware. Download antispyware program now!". The real problem is, this icon/program is the blasted spyware. I have spyware on my computer, and every scan is "quarantines" this file. I then delete it, only to have the icon still there, glaring at me.
At work, we have this young man who happens to have a second job as an IT guy. Very contrasting jobs, working in a kitchen and as an IT guy, but he's good at his job so whatever. "youngblood" as he is called, and I had a converstation on Friday. I told him about my problem, and he says that all I have to do is to piss my computer off, make it enter "safe mode" and I will be able to go in and delete the file. So, I came home Friday, and did this, and thought that I was free and clear of this issue. I was, but only because I went to bed after cheering about it with the entire blogosphere (which for me consists of about 3 people. maybe).
It hasn't worked. I have spent the last two hours working on this problem, and it still laughs at me as I write this.

And in other news, Thursday morning I will be meeting one more time with the powers that be to see about OJ's. Could be the one in south Surrey is available now...that would be sweet.

Saturday, January 17, 2009

things to cheer for

A couple things to be thankful for and say hooray to before I crash into bed:

1) the job assessment this morning went very well, and they like me. this is good news

2) I think that I have finally gotten rid of the annoying pop up in the taskbar that has been there for months

3) Vanessa tried a new job. She jumped in with both feet, and unfortunately the water was infested with angry, yelling, unhappy and mean people in charge, so she got out, and will live to find another pool of water on another day. It's taken me a few years to get to that point.

G'night

Wednesday, January 14, 2009

P/T SAHD

I mentioned that Vanessa has a job now. It's a job with normal people hours, unlike my job which is all over the place. I have had yesterday and today off, and with Vanessa at work now instead of sleeping in, shopping and going out for lunch with her, I am a part time stay at home dad.
Because of this, I am doing fun things, such as: loads of laundry, vacuuming and cruising the world wide web. (do people call it that anymore? is it just internet? surfing? googling?) Maybe spend some time exercising (hahaha...I thought about going for a run yesterday. Then I stopped thinking about it when my knees reminded me that they should have a say in it too), watching Oprah and eating bon bons...
The good news is, staying home and doing fun things like laundry doesn't cost anywhere near as much money as shopping and going out for lunch. Added bonus: time to blog.

I found this during my "surfing" this morning. I would be a "squire" which sounds about right.

The mornings seem to be going ok so far. It's only been 3 days, but all 3 have seen Vanessa get to work on time, the kids lunches have been made and equipped with all necessary eating utensils, ice packs and snacks. They have even been ready early enough that we have had time to watch pokemon before leaving for school. It's on from 8-8:25, which is perfect. It ends early enough for the kids to get their shoes on, and get out to the car to make it to school on time. Today we even got there 5 minutes before the first bell.

Not sure how long we can keep this up, as I have been off for two days in a row now. May be more of a challenge if I close during the week, but so far it's great.

Monday, January 12, 2009

Happy New Year...two weeks late

If this blog was a child, I would officially be reported to Child Services. I took a month or so off, yet didn't have anyone step in to care for it. Upon returning today, I see that it is still alive, although the 3 people that read it have probably moved on to bigger and better by now.

The holidays were good. The snow provided lots of activity for the kids, and one special day where lots of the aunts & uncles and even grandma and grandpa's got out on the sleds and flew down the hill.

As the kids headed back to school last week, it provided Vanessa with some time to do some shopping-I mean job hunting. Today was her first day of her new monday to friday gig, 8-430. Why can't my job have hours like that? I have yet to get the update on how things went, but the store she is at doesn't open until Feb. so I don't imagine there was a whole lot to report. I know from giving 12,622 orientations at my job, that hers was probably not that exciting. I'll find out soon, as the kids are getting picked up from "daycare" (HUGE props to Gary and mostly Angela for hooking us up with a couple hours in their afternoons). The kids were not super excitied that Vanessa was going to work, but the thought of getting to hang out with Auntie and the kids made it easier to bear.

Still investigating an opportunity with a new restaurant, hopefully in the next week or so we'll have some more concrete answers. And time to keep the blogosphere updated.